Do You Have an Eeyore on Your Team?


Leaders, do you have an “Eeyore” on your team? Someone who acts as if the glass is half-full?  Someone who acts as if he is resigned?

Eeyore Leader

Many of us read the classic Winnie the Pooh as children (or had it read to us).  You may recall one of the key characters was a donkey named “Eeyore” who was Pooh’s close friend.  Eeyore’s persona was gloomy and depressed. According to Wikipedia, “his house is regularly knocked down, but he always rebuilds it. He usually expects misfortune to happen to him, accepts it when it does and rarely even tries to prevent it. His catchphrases are “Thanks for noticin’ me” and “Ohhh-kayyy”.” Eeyore shows us what it looks like to behave “as if” one is a victim of circumstances.

Leader half full

One of my clients had a team member that appeared to be in “Eeyoreland.”  When she asked if he saw the glass as half-full or half-empty, his reply was “of course it’s half-full.” She did not, however, observe actions consistent with that mindset. Instead, the team member had been acting “as if” the glass for him was half-full, yet his actions were inconsistent with that belief.

This team member was acting from a mood of resignation so his mindset and actions were consistent with that particular mood.

We are always in a mood, although we are often unaware that we are in them.

What can be done?

When she pushed back on the team member, he eventually admitted to feeling angry and frustrated.  He had wanted to be promoted and this had not yet happened.

When the manager asked if he had received any feedback from the group leader about the requested promotion, he admitted that he had, yet he had done nothing about it.

So why was this otherwise high-performing team member doing nothing with the leaders’ feedback?

He knew he had things to do, yet wasn’t taking appropriate action.

My client recognized he was the “Eeyore” on her team.  He was in a mood of resignation; he accepted the feedback but did not act on it.

My client decided to put on her coach hat in order to help him with shifting the mood.   She told the team member that what he could change was how he was being in response to the feedback.  First, she had to listen deeply and let him know how much she cared about his goals.

Change the mood you are in, and you can change how you are “being” in response to information:

  • Act “as if” you were the leader you wish to become; develop an expertise on a topic of value to the team, write succinct e-mails, read inspirational books on leadership, give a hot-topic presentation to your teammates
  • Take a business challenge in your area and act “as if” you were your boss:  Identify opportunities and a plan for moving forward that not only reflects your interests, but the interests of your team mates

After my client discussed this with her team member, he said “thank you.” Now the ball is his court.  How he chooses to respond will create the possibility for his desired outcome.

Do you know someone who operates from an “Eeyore” perspective?

Offer to help them to become empowered and influential by shifting mood and mindset.

To learn more about how you can develop this and other important leadership skills you might not yet know, I hope you’ll check out my new book, “Inner Switch:  7 Timeless Principles to Transform Modern Leadership.”  You can purchase it from your favorite online retailer at

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